Discussions about race, inequity, and identity are often filled with passion and emotion. They can be challenging, intimidating, and liberating all at the same time. As facilitators and participants of PoCC, we rely on community norms to help us engage in courageous conversations. Although there are different versions of these norms, here are some to help those who wish to continue these important conversations.

Honor confidentiality.

Assume positive intent.

Speak from the “I” perspective.

Listen, listen, listen, then respond.

Take risks.

“Ouch!”

Be fully present.

Lean into discomfort.

Be crisp, say what is core.

Treat the candidness of others as a gift.

Suspend judgment of yourself and of others.